Be Whole Before You Look to Be Half

Posted March 6, 2013 By: CupcakezNgi

Whatever in life that you have been putting off... procrastinating with.... take the steps to get it straight, or begin pursuing it. If there is weight you want to lose... hit the gym. If it's a closet you need to organize... get to it.

Sometimes we get frustrated with romance and dating, relationships yet don't take the time to fix or clean up things we have going on in life. What I'm saying is... we have to be a whole person before we can be half. If you haven't found that relationship you hope for... be patient. Be patient with yourself and take time to get your ducks in a row. Breathe. Meditate. Spend time with family. Go to school. Gym. Pay your bills. Volunteer. Just do something to upgrade yourself. Place your energy on self and someday the person who fits you will come along and be your better half and vice



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  1. EnChanteey avatar

    posted Monday, March 25

    So true Gigi, what a nice and elaborate way of describing this beautiful way of living and being. I've experienced it for myself, now I'm happily married for almost 2 years. Just because I learned who I am and to love myself before I even got in this relationship.. Actually I wasn't even looking, I was perfectly happy just by myself and now I'm even happier :)

  2. Francies Stephenson avatar

    posted Sunday, March 10

    I'm glad I came across your blog. You have inspired me. Thank you.

  3. Speak_EZ avatar

    posted Sunday, March 10


  4. CupcakezNgi avatar

    posted Sunday, March 10

    Knowing purpose in life... that's so true. I'm going to marinate pm this one today. Thank you. :)

  5. Titty56 avatar

    posted Sunday, March 10

    There is a real recipe for love and the ingredient are not rare. One of the main ingredient is knowing your self and your purpose in life before trying to share thst kife with some. True love stay no matter what. It stand the test o f time. With real love we use "The Golden Rule" ALWAYS.... LOVE SHOULD NEVER HURT.

  6. mscope avatar

    posted Friday, March 8

    Awesome word and so true.

  7. CupcakezNgi avatar

    posted Thursday, March 7

    You're welcome! This is where loving yourself comes first. I meant to add, love those that are already around... your family, friends, colleagues, strangers... we have to focus on being in order to begin to find/see love in another... gm...

  8. OMi avatar

    posted Wednesday, March 6

    Wise words. Sometimes you lose sight but thank you for reminding us.

  9. chelsbabe854 avatar

    posted Wednesday, March 6

    i couldnt agree more. I always try to tell people, if you dont know who you are, how can you expect to be with someone else??

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